Getting married

When you love someone, you want them to be your closest friend. You don't
want to let them out of your sight and you want them to always be within
your reach.
When you get to know them better and the butterflies in your stomach cool
off but you still realize that you love them even more than in the
beginging; then you are crazy over them and you know for sure you want to
spend the rest of your life with them.
I found this kinda love and there's nothing good enough to give in place of
our relationship. We got married on the 21st of March, 2008, and I know the
party is just beginging. Now I can have him in my arms forever as we both
discover new depths of love each day and relish to sweetness of it.
I couldn't ask for more than to be married to the love of my life,Sola.
Indeed my soul mate.
Getting married is wonderful!

whats up?

I once got a text message from my brother and it read: "life's all about
ups- Grow up, get up, mix up, step up, chop up, show up, clean up, open up
live up, above all, never give up. But more importantly what's up?

Mirror,mirror, on the wall.....

Ever given the mirror principle a serious thought? You know, this came
to me as I casually thought about who I am and how people see me. The
truth about a mirror is that it shows your reflection as it is not
necessarily as you are. Take a convex mirror for example, it makes you
look bigger than you really are and for the concave mirror, it makes
you look smaller. There are lots of different kinds of mirrors each
manufactured with some unique qualities which make it reflect images in
paticular ways.

This discovery was particularly exciting to me when i gustapossed it
with the way we view each other. It means that I see people they way i
am and people see me the way they are.

Understanding this means that I don't ever have to worry about what
people say about me. After all they are seeing more of themselves than
of me. So i made this conclusion. Next time someone passed a comment
about me whether good or bad, I'll take it in stride and not let it get
into my head. Rather, I'll think over it and check to see if there's
something am missing. Is this a character flaw or uniqueness?

This line of reasoning, to me, is liberating because, I have freed
myself from the control of other people's evaluation. I don't have to
be sorry for being me; I don't have to have acceptance fever....I just
have to be me. Of course I consider other people's views about me but I
don't let it depress me or pop my head.
So, hello mirror, I know exaclty who I am!