There is the common cliché acronym that goes like this: Fear= False Evidence Appearing Real! If you think about it a bit, you'll get the point.
One of the symptoms of fear is worry. A lady who was given to worrying a lot was once asked, 'why do u worry so much'? Her reply: ' Well someone's got to worry about things. If I don't, who will?' She went on to add, ' and half the things I worry about don't happen. So, I must be doing something right!' What do you think of that?
Fear has a great impact on our mind. Take the phobias for example. A phobia is an irrational negative reaction (fear) to certain things or situations. Fear incapacitates us! Phobias are particularly powerful. They are so strong that a person can put himself in greater danger just to escape his phobia. For example, a person with arachnophobia (fear of spiders) will not hesitate to jump out of a moving vehicle if he sees a spider on board!
That's the power of fear! It completely blocks our rational thinking. It counteracts our power of self will! It simply holds us bound!!
If you think about your life, maybe you can find some fears you have harboured in the past, and some that are still present. Our fears may affect others. For example, a parent can fear his child being injured and thus deny the child of stepping out of the house. A boss may fear his subordinates not getting a job done well and thus, holds back from delegating.
The mental attitude of fear, takes a heavy toll on our whole being. It has been linked to many heart and brain problems and even death!
We all have fears. We all come in contact with fear. How can we overcome its incapacitating power?
1. Admit that you are afraid.
2. Answer the question, Why?
3. Decide that you are not going to allow fear push you to inaction or avoidance.
4. Take little steps towards conquering your fear.
5. Ask a trusted friend to help you overcome your fear.
6. Picture yourself free. Think of what you could achieve if you let go of fear.
7. Live life to the fullest!!
Selah
4 comments:
Take little steps towards conquering your fear. What are some of these little steps
Fear is real in the lives of every human being & we all have one thing or the other to be afraid of. There is fear of failure, fear of danger, even the fear of death. This is just to mention a few because people experience different kinds of fear. But for a christian, there are two types of fear- servile & filiar fear. The fear of God- filiar fear, is a godly fear which acknowledges God's sovereignty. Jesus Christ our Lord was fond of telling His disciples not to fear becauce God has given us the spirit of boldness & not of fear. So what do we do when we are confronted with a fearful situation, my suggestion is that we should appropriate the authority the Almighty God gave to us & rebuke the spirit of fear.
For some people the fear doesn't come up at all in spite of whatever the situation is reading- there is that in-born confidence or assurances - You know that "nothing ' gonna happen" Stance? or even being ready to take on the worst result in the situation. For instance the worst that could happen on the job you value so much is to loose it, but when you are even prepared for that as bad as it sounds, then what or who Would you fear. As simple as the analogy above sounds, its not something anybody just wake up into, its a result of childhood trainings, years or seasons of experiences and self assurances and most importantly a good knowledge of who God is and the content of His power. If anybody missed out on the chilhood trainings aspect, all is not lost on overcoming fears, just pick up from the "knowing your God module" and if well grounded in this the maggot called FEAR is a gonna. They that know their God shall be strong and they shall do Exploits.
For some people the fear doesn't come up at all in spite of whatever the situation is reading- there is that in-born confidence or assurances - You know that "nothing ' gonna happen" Stance? or even being ready to take on the worst result in the situation. For instance the worst that could happen on the job you value so much is to loose it, but when you are even prepared for that as bad as it sounds, then what or who Would you fear. As simple as the analogy above sounds, its not something anybody just wake up into, its a result of childhood trainings, years or seasons of experiences and self assurances and most importantly a good knowledge of who God is and the content of His power. If anybody missed out on the chilhood trainings aspect, all is not lost on overcoming fears, just pick up from the "knowing your God module" and if well grounded in this the maggot called FEAR is a gonna. They that know their God shall be strong and they shall do Exploits.
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